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Gotcha!

Does everyone’s child love to have you chase them? I find this in each of our kids. They run and laugh and there is usually some type of fun consequence for them when I catch them; like a harsh tickling or being thrown over my shoulder to be deposited on the sofa in the next room, or a good ‘whacking of bottoms’, something that brings a similar result to the tickling penalty.

So the request, “Whack my bottom!” is now similar to the phrase  “on your mark, get set, go”. ~ Although Dylan likes to say, “Get your mark, get your set, gooooo”. Her variation to this song  is, “You can’t whack my bottom!” and off she goes. These are all extensions to the boast, “You can’t catch me!”, as outlined in the chase sequence above. ~will she ever learn? I always catch her.

So last night we were getting our oldest ready for bed. We were putting her PJ’s on her in the living room as her sister was already (supposedly) asleep in her room. Dylan was disrobed when she started shaking her naked bottom.

This time she changes the challenge a bit singing, “You don’t wanna whack my bottom! You don’t wanna whack my bottom!”

Drawing ever closer to prove her wrong, I asked, “Oh yea? Why not?”

Dylan gets a big ‘I gotcha’ smile and tells me, “Your hand will get dirty!”

Well mommy laughs out loud as it appears I was set up (again), looking at me like “She gotcha!”. However, I rationalize, all that potty-training training is working as she is catching the concept of germs. I smile to myself thinking, We’ve got her trained pretty good.

Or is it the other way around?

This morning I thought I would take a picture of our living room to offer what kind of creative writing environment I sit in. It is usually the castle being a disaster, Disney Princesses laying in various forms of distress, the costume cabinet being stormed, books spewed on the floor, Legos in various stages of getting completed into walls, an empty bag of apples and two empty chocolate milk sippies laying in unnatural positions.

Today, however, they tricked me again. The floors are relatively clear, certainly not worth uploading a picture for. I have wiped bottoms, distributed snacks, broken up fights, peeled numerous stickers off my hand, and wiped all the spilled milk off the counter, all while I have typed this up. But no pictures to prove my predicament. They are both fed and dressed already. They are ready to go and I sit her in my PJ’s waiting for a good shower.

 

I think they have me trained just where they want me….

 
So before I post this I check one more thing, the closed door to their room….

Gotcha!

(Sigh)

Tight-Wad Tuesdays: We can all be Millionaires!

So you know, Mom loved the Sonic Blast, I do not bring home rich desserts that often for her, especially on a gym day (it was more of a reward) and Dylan and Skylar are ready to move on to Lesson II in ‘Baby Can Read’ already. So all the girls in my home are happy…today!

So I wanted to ask you, are you ready to learn how to become a millionaire for your retirement?

We all have been educated in different areas. While I love to learn more about some things I feel pretty secure on some areas of my education. One area is Personal Finance. I want to tell you of an easy, safe, and virtually painless method to accumulate wealth over time.

Wait! Don’t go! This is my soapbox moment; something I feel strongly about. I am not making any money off of this. You are! I just want to tell you how. It is so easy. You don’t need to be wealthy or have a six figure income. Ideally this type of investing is best for young adults; singles in their 20’s, young married couples with little debt, or 30ish professionals looking to map out their future and so on. We did not start until I was in my 40’s.

This type of building wealth, with little money to start, is called “Dividend Reinvestment Plans” or DRiPs for short. They are so simple. They should be taught in our schools, but they are not. You don’t hear about them because the big boys (banks and investment firms) don’t make any money from them.
WHAT: In a nutshell DRIP investing is owning a few shares of a great company that pays a regular quarterly dividend. Ideally the dividend is generous in relation to the stock price (dividend yield, I talk more about this later). You own the share of stock and make regular monthly purchases, like $50, every month to buy more shares of that stock. So you slowly accumulate more shares over time. The dividends, paid quarterly, are not taken as cash but instead are reinvested as more shares of stock.

Now you know, the more shares of stock you own, the higher your quarterly dividend payout ($ dividend amount  x   # shares of stock owned = dividend payout). So the paid dividend is reinvested and grows larger each time, building more and more shares. Simple, right? Kind of a snowball effect!

The stock shares do accumulate slowly over time (drips) with small regular monthly purchases. You might only receive $10 or $15 in dividend in new shares at first (still beats what interest you would get in a bank’s savings account). In a few years you have accumulated more shares and now that dividend looks more like $40 or $50.

You keep making regular monthly purchases and reinvesting your dividends over time and you can grow to hundreds and then thousands of shares (if you start early enough). Now how much would 1000 shares of Coke be worth at retirement? If Coke paid $1.00 per share dividend and you owned 1000 shares, how much would that dividend pay out be? How many more shares of stock would that buy? Plus you get a progressively larger pay out every 3 months! And its even better than that!
HOW:  The slow and steady accumulation of shares and wealth is only one aspect of this. The ‘wealth’ is the CHEESE. The plans method is its simplicity. Can you spare $50 a month? Pack your lunch twice a week? Once you build this into your family budget it is painless. If you, or your spouse,  gets a new job or a raise consider picking up a second DRIP.

We did this. We started off with two DRIPS and since have picked up a few more for a broader exposure. Can you imagine slowly building 1000+ shares in 5 or more great companies? That is our goal. You don’t need a large sum of money to start, just a little bit of room in your budget. It is investing on a shoestring and retiring with the whole shoe store! And as simple as a monthly transfer to your savings.

 
I will give some specifics next week on the way to start DRIP accounts and help you pick some great Dividend paying companies the following week in Tight Wad Tuesdays. I just want you to understand what DRIPS are and how they work. Simply, you buy a few shares of stock, put them in your name, and have a Transfer Agent, like Computershare, take care of the regular monthly purchases for you, usually automatic bank drafts. You get a statement at the end of the month saying the amount of the purchase and your accumulated shares.

Now if you are not a little bit excited about this either I am not doing my job right or you are not concerned about a comfy retirement. So I want to offer some ideas from the Fools,

The Lowdown
…Drip plans constitute the closest thing to getting your shares “straight from the tap.”

“… plans are designed to allow investors to begin investing relatively small initial sums. You then have the option to amass a more significant position over time via low- or no-cost optional cash payments, which can typically be made monthly or as often as you can afford.”
So you buy shares, regularly over time, paying little to no commissions on each monthly purchase. Again, the CHEESE, is building wealth over the reinvestment of dividends…. in addition to the ‘Dollar-Cost Averaging’ idea and ‘Compounded Annual Growth’. Consider why reinvesting dividends rocks

“One of the best things about Drips is that they allow you to have all dividends reinvested back into company stock, even if the dividends just buy fractions of shares.

Consider Ford Motor Co. (NYSE: F  ) . If you bought some shares of it at the end of 1980 and hung on for 18 years to the end of 1998, they would have appreciated nearly 3,900% (22.7% annually). That’s amazing enough. But get this — if you’d been reinvesting dividends to purchase more shares, your total return would skyrocket to 12,300%, or 30.7% per year! An initial $1,000 investment would have grown to $39,000 without reinvesting dividends and $124,000 with reinvested dividends.

  • Over the same 18-year period, Pfizer advanced 22.3% annually without reinvestment and 25.3% with it.
  • J.P. Morgan shares grew 12.3% without reinvestment and 17% with.
  • Coca-Cola (NYSE: KO  ) appreciated 24% without reinvestment and 27% with it. 

Over a decade or two, these differences can amount to doubling your money.”

Those returns were after 18 years of investing and reinvesting. If you start when you are 30 the timeline expands to more than 30 years, and can practically double the returns listed above. Coke has actually returned over 55% for me since 2004. That is 8 years of reinvestment growth over some very turbulent times in the markets. And now those reinvested dividends are actually larger than my monthly contributions. And growing!

So get started early, be patient, watch the account grow!
I think I have taken up enough of your time for now. If you have any questions at all please contact me via the email on my gravatar. We do own a small handful of DRIPS, so I know the process. I want to end with a summary of the DRIP advantages: Thanks for stopping by! Your future is worth your investment…..

ADVANTAGES of DRIPs

1) You don’t need to be rich!:You don’t need a large amount of money to start. Usually owning one share is all that is required to enroll in a DRP.
2) Significant accumulation over time: DRPs are a cost-effective way to put stock dividends to better use — purchasing more shares of the company — than simply spending the money or having it sit in a money market account. Over a long-term horizon the paid dividends can grow exponentially!
3) Investing on a budget: Most companies allow investors to purchase additional shares through a Dividend Reinvestment Plan for nominal fees — or often no fee at all. These stock purchase provisions, allow an investor to send in as little as $10 to $50 at a time to purchase additional stock.
4) NO Commission investing!: About 100 companies have DRPs that allow investors to purchase stock at a discount to the current market price. These discounts can range anywhere from one to ten percent…with little to NO commissions!
5) Virtually ‘Painless’ building of wealth: DRPs “force” investors to buy stock on a regular basis and hold on to that stock (dollar-cost averaging). As a result, investors adopt a long-term horizon and often invest small amounts of money on a regular basis — money that they usually don’t even miss.
6) Comfortable Cash-Flow in retirement: When you reach your retirement age the accumulated piles of stock could amount to a significant cash flow if you decide to stop reinvesting the dividends and take the quarterly payout instead. ~ but please don’t do this before retirement!

7) Stock Slumps are OK: When the price of your stock goes down it is actually OK..you are buying MORE shares then. More shares = more accumulated shares for reinvested dividend shares!

Like all important financial decisions you should do a fair amount of research first.  I will leave a few links to further define and illustrate the Dividend Reinvestment Plan; in addition to the links in my post. See you next week!

Drip Investing, Step By Step

What are Dividend Reinvestment Plans (DRPs)?


DYLANism(s)…What a surprise!

I have never been around children too often before we had our own. So I do not know what is normal or what is amazing.

Monday night I just finished making dinner. I made dinner because Mom wanted to stay after work and go to the gym, with the New Years Resolution (atta girl!). Time was of the essence as the dinner was coming together, we had just gotten home from getting Mom a Sonic Reese Blast with extra Reeses, and Mom would be home soon. (I know, I am either a great husband, thinking of a Reese surprise for his wife or evil for bringing her a blast after her first attempt in the gym)

I put dinner on the table, without Mom being home. Dylan had just ignored my 4th attempt to get her in her seat, choosing to stay in my chair, stirring my water with my fork. Just then she knocked her chocolate milk on to the floor making a small mess. So I did something I should not have done. I yelled at her. I told her, “I have asked you 4 times now to get in your chair. Please get in your chair so we can eat!”

So Dylan quietly walked around to her seat without a word.

I had taken a few bites of dinner around a quiet dinner table when I heard Dylan tapping her index finger on her lip. I looked up at her as she asked herself a question out loud.

“Hmmm?”, she thinks. “What would make Daddy happy? What would make Daddy happy, while looking at me.

You couldn’t help but smile at her with her innocence and good nature.

She said, “Daddy are you happy now? You are smiling. Are you happy now?”

Just then Mom walks thru the door. Dylan runs over to give her a hug.

Mom asks, “Am I missing dinner?”

Dylan enthusiastically responds, “We just started Mommy, but you can’t have your ice cream yet. You can’t have your ice cream yet.”

Mom asks, “Why not?”

Dylan answers, “It’s a surprise!”     

Are you happy?

Monday morning! What can happen next?

Monday morning! Blah!

This morning kicks off another week. More importantly it is the end of the weekend. Hmph! It was a nice weekend too.

So I turned on the computer with my expectations down around the “Monday Morning Blues” level. Then what do my drowsy eyes see but a ‘ping back’ from a blog that is very dear to my heart (Write). The blog was about an organization that is very dear to my heart as well, a charitable group I volunteer for, The Lowcountry Orphan Relief. Wow! What a nice surprise? I was so taken back on various levels.

First, what a great thing Pat from PA does. Her blog, Project 365, is about organizations that she sees trying to make a difference in our world. Her blog is never about her weekend or how she is feeling on a Monday morning. It is about some special company doing benevolent work. Awesome! Please check out her blog, Write On Target,  and say Hello while you are there. I am sure she would appreciate it. What a great thing she does.

Write On Target

In her beautifully written blog today she mentions the Lowcountry Orphan Relief. About a week ago I offered this group to her as a charity I find very noteworthy in my community. I gave her a link to their web site and maybe a contact address and not much more. Pat took this info, did her own research, and came up with this write up. Amazing!

In the professional life I just exited, Monday mornings were about ‘watch your back, stuck in traffic, what more can you do for my company, people taking parking spaces, go, go, go and so on. Caught up in this world of beating last year, I never considered their were nice people out there, going out of their way to make a difference. This blogging stuff has opened so many windows for me! And I keep noticing Angels here on earth, one after another.

If you know me or my family you may have an idea why the Lowcountry Orphan Relief group (LOR) is so dear to my heart. Our kids are such miracles to us in a sense. Our experience has opened my eyes to the amount of kids out there that can’t go it alone, but are forced to. The LOR defends these kids in our little part of the world, clothing, sheltering, sponsoring the poor, abused or forgotten kids, trying to make theirs a world worth living. And sadly, each year the need becomes even greater. So thanks LOR and the other groups out there that look after these kids.

Pat’s research also uncovered another great blog from my home town that also recently featured a post on the LOR in their online publication. This blog I was completely unaware of (like soooo many other things in this world I suppose). It was a great, professional looking blog (I wish my skills were this good!), filled with many aspects of life here in the Lowcountry. If you have a passion for Arts or Fashion, Food & Wine, or other Loves checkCharlie out. Its one of those ‘time-suckers’ where you keep looking around and you just don’t want to leave. ~I still have an open window to it for when I am done here.

Before I move on I just want to say thanks again.  Thanks Pat! Thanks LOR! Thanks Charlie! And, thanks to those others reading this that take parts of their valuable time and try to make the world a little bit better. You so Rock!

 
Today I was going to talk about (and ask for your suggestions) our ‘grand experiment’. I was going to try to start teaching our kids to read this week. The kids got this great Christmas gift, that was highly recommended, “Your Baby Can Read”.

The challenge is trying to teach two kids, at two different levels, how to read. The greater challenge, I am afraid, is how to maintain these two kid’s attention, while trying to accomplish varying tasks. Dylan is pretty advanced for her age, not only knowing her colors, numbers and letters, but also her phonics pretty good as well. All these things are being in introduced to our youngest for the first time. So we’ll see how this experiment goes.

And then I think, I am not trained to be a teacher. I do not have the skills for this! Then I am forced to realize, thru my job search efforts, that I was a trainer in many of my prior jobs.    If I claim to be a trainer in my professional life I darn well oughta be a trainer in my personal life. A life where my success is far more valuable and far reaching.

Howabout you?

Do you have any ideas, or successes to pass along, in educating your children?

What worked best for you?

Our kids, and ALL kids, deserve to be taught to be the best that they can be!

DYLANism…..

Sunday night we were all around the dinner table eating our Sunday dinner. Things are going smoothly and we are all having a bit of fun.

About two thirds of the way thru our meal their was a silence in between conversations. Just then we heard the sound of the ice maker in our refrigerator drop a load of ice in the ice tray. That’s what it does, right? Nothing new there?

Dylan looks up from her meatloaf, her eye brows are all bunched together and breaks the silence, “Daddy, I think the refrigerator just pooted!”

Mommy and I just looked at each other and smiled. “Eat your dinner Dylan”.

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